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**The video above serves no other purpose than to get your feet tapping.**

The ever elusive Sloane. I know, I hear you, the question burning on peoples’ minds – what’s next for me? What adventure is next?

Let me tell you this. I am always up for the challenges that life brings. And for me, a bigger challenge is sitting still than it is to keep going. That is why I am spending November is the ever cliched “cabin in the woods.”

Now this cabin isn’t too remote, I’m not Stephen King holed up in Maine. But my mom does have a place about an hour from Pittsburgh at Hidden Valley (not like the dressing) and it’s where I learned to ski as a kid, it’s surrounded by trees, it’s remote and up until yesterday without internet.

What am I doing here? Partially putting together a personal strategic plan for 2010 which includes putting all my ideas on paper and taping them to the wall and thinking about what avenues I really do want to explore, and what I most realistically don’t want to do. It includes working on a redesign for The Causemopolitan, working on a manifesto I’ve been tinkering with, setting up a few other ventures floating around in my mind. That also includes long hikes, reading a stack of books I brought up, catching up on GOOD, Ode, The Week, Fast Company and the Harvard Business Review – my periodicals of choice. Listening to my favorite business podcasts. Basically being alone and thinking through my thoughts.

One BIG thing I forgot. National Novel Writing Month. #NaNoWriMo. It’s 50,000 words in one month. It’s letting go of perfection and saying “This doesn’t suck.” My plan is to write about my past year. I’ve always felt like I had lots of books inside of me. This is attempt to get at least one of them out there on paper. If nothing else to free my mind to take charge and work on some of the other ones swirling around my mind.

It’s HARD. I’ll write more about that as the month goes on, but let me say this. Blogging is going to take a backseat this month. It has to. I can get so wrapped up in writing HERE. I’m still writing, but forgive me for not doing my weekly features or being incredibly timely.

Am I super-productive every moment? Nope. Sometimes I sit and stare out the window or work on my 1,000 piece puzzle. I need this for myself. And some people get it. Great. And some people are mad at me because they think it’s not fair that I get to do this while they work. To that, what I have to say is that we all create our own reality. When I have a house and a family and all the things we’re supposed to want in life, I’ll have different priorities. But for now, this is what I need for me.

So there you have it. November in a nutshell. I might be asking some of you for feedback. I might be asking you for support. I might be asking you for connections or introductions. I might just be asking you to send me a virtual hug. Know that I’ll come out swinging ready to take life by the horns. You can’t build a house in a day, but you can chop wood every day. That’s my definition of progress.

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  • So excited to hear what's next for you - you always have wonderful ideas and are a great inspiration - and next time we'll be sure to catch up in NYC! I'm off to Peru this week so will write a bit about it when I'm back. Sending good thoughts to you!
  • Sloane Berrent
    Laura - First enjoy Peru! I was there in like 2004 and it was incredible. The colors and the weavings of the indigenous people are just amazing. Second I can't wait to catch up sometime. I'll keep being one kind of inspiration, you keep being the truly wonderful kind you are and our paths will cross again soon.
  • One of my coaches always used to tell us to remember to breathe out in a race, because the part of breathing that actually separates the oxygen from the air and supplies your blood happens during the exhale and not the inhale.

    That is to say, exhaling is when you get the real "value" of breathing.

    I think of that a lot in midst of the incredibly full lives we lead. Even though it may all be "good" "great" "inspiring" etc, it can all start to feel very much as though we are constantly inhaling. To the point it's actually uncomfortable. When we reach that point, it's not only that we're not getting the value from the experiences we've already had, but the LAST thing we want is to 'breathe in more' so to speak.

    So thankful for you that you have this month to exhale and make this whole year truly valuable for you and the world.

    Will be very excited to see what emerges on the other side!
  • Sloane Berrent
    Jake - How poignant. You're exactly right. The phrase I've been using that I didn't mention in the post was "DECOMPRESS." We absolutely do so much input and output - where is the time to just take it all in. Revive our spirits to keep fighting the good fight.

    You're on my short list to update with what's next. After my mom of course. She has this silly thing about wanting to know about things before I blog about them.
  • bronwyn
    I think that's awesome, Sloane. Sometimes solitude is just what the doctor ordered. And you're gearing up for the next year, so it's part of that process. Rock on.
  • Sloane Berrent
    Thanks Bronwyn. It's a bit overwhelming at times to be alone all day. Someone called me today at noon and I realized that while I had been up for hours, I hadn't spoken yet so sounded like I just rolled out of bed. Sometimes I talk out loud to myself just to hear my voice. Solitude it hard. It's totally part of the process. I'm enjoying this time up here no doubt. Thanks for following along, really means a lot.
  • <> Just sent you that as a proactive measure. You make going off into a cabin in November sound positively divine. Have a restful, inspiring and creative time in recluse.
  • ha ha - in the brackets was supposed to be HUG! Your blog stripped out my virtual hug - lol.
  • Sloane Berrent
    WHAT? My blog is stripping me of virtual hugs? This is insanity. Well I'm certainly #thankfulfor friends like you. Thanks so much Jen!
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