
Attending a Center Meeting in Antique Province, Philippines
Totally by surprise I found out two weeks ago that a friend of mine from Los Angeles moved to Manila. He’s moved to Manila to start an outsourcing company and seeing as how fate brought us to the same city, we met up last week for dinner. A few years ago he founded a nonprofit aimed at providing malaria nets to kids in Africa and our conversations easily turned to activism and how to encourage people to get involved with causes.
Seeing as how I’m currently homeless and without a permanent job and unsure exactly where my income will be coming from when I return to the U.S. in the fall, I have gotten quite used to people introducing me in a variety of ways. I’m somewhat hard to categorize – I know, I know – and honestly, I have a hard time with it too. The simple “Where do you live?” and “Where do you work?” are either going to illicit from me an answer that is brief (what most people want right? The simple answer?) or depending on the person and the circumstance, I’ll give more detail, delve into a bit more the who’s and what’s, tell one or more of the canned stories and jokes I have in my back-pocket for such situations.
This time, however, I heard something I’ve never heard before. When introducing me to his roommate, he said, “Meet Sloane, she’s a humanitarian working on a great project here in the Philippines in microfinance.”
Humanitarian? I was taken aback. Embarrassed even. No, I thought, the term humanitarian is for someone who does great things. Great big things. I’m just one person who turned lemons into lemonade and stumbled upon this amazing opportunity to serve a nonprofit I believe in here in the Philippines. Yes, I have a long history of giving back so maybe I could be considered an activist, or nonprofiteer, do gooder – something with less weight to it, but humanitarian?
At dinner, he reminded me that he was very active in his local Rotary Club. “You should really get involved,” he said “It’s the oldest service club in the country.”

Teresa on Talim Island
I have always wanted to be involved in a service club, I’ll join in the fall when I settle into a hometown, I told myself the next day when I went online to casually check out the Rotary Club’s website. I was floored. It was like knocking on a door and when it opens you’re staring at all your friends who look up like “why are you late to the party?” I scrolled and clicked and tabbed and browsed.
Yes, this is absolutely me, I whispered breathlessly to myself.
That very evening I was headed to Baguio City, a must-see town in Northern Luzon, about 6 hours by bus from Manila. I checked into a nice resort that was running an off-season promo called Ridgewood Resort. I’m standing at the check-in desk waiting for my room and look down on the coffee table and what do I see but a stack of The Rotarian, the official magazine of the Rotary Club.
So here I am, currently obsessed with the Rotary Club from my dinner conversation the night before and from devouring the website during the day and the magazine is sitting in front of me. I pick up the one on top with a picture of Archbishop Desmund Tutu on the cover (April 2009) and flip through to read his article.
There are no such things as coincidences.
On the second page of his article, I came upon Archbishop Tutu’s answer to a question about how people in development can sustain themselves in the face of so much world greed and global shortages of resources:
Tutu: Very few people want handouts. They want a hand up. We are seeing more and more people who are saying, “We are not bringing charity. We are in a partnership. We are family. We are trying to work with you, so that you can be part of the solution to pull yourselves out of poverty.” We speak about humanitarian work – actually that’s a nice word, humanitarian. You are looking to help people recover their humanity, their dignity, the worth that is intrinsic to every human being. You are really working with God, who is saying, I gave you a world that’s not perfect, and quite deliberately, because I wanted you to be partners with me in perfecting it.
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